Last Thursday we went to Mereworth Vineyard for a meal and some paired win. What a beautiful day.
Tuesday, 30 June 2026
Wednesday, 10 June 2026
Tuesday, 19 May 2026
Skunk Anansie
Shaheen messaged me a couple of days ago and asked if I was free to meet up in London on Monday. I was in London anyway and haven't seen him in a little while so said yes. He kept everything secret, but eventually I worked it out. Skunk Anansie was playing at the Water Rats! A tiny venue just off Kings Cross Station. It was amazing, she was once again superb. Great night! We're off to see Dodgy on Thursday too!
Twickenham on Saturday
Along with around 50 other TJs members we popped along to see the harlequins play at Twickenham. It was along day 2h each way but we had a good time and was good to see everyone again after the season finished a couple of weeks ago.
Tuesday, 12 May 2026
Sunday roast
We met one of the other rugby families out for a roast on Sunday. The Rock Inn, Chiddingstone. It was great fun.
Monday, 23 March 2026
Saturday, 27 December 2025
Christmas eve fun
We had friends from the rugby club over on Christmas eve, original plan was to find somewhere for us all to eat but due to it being so close to Christmas were unable to find a table for us and the kids, 12 in total. I ended up offering to cook some beef.
Wednesday, 19 November 2025
The return of afternoon o'booze
I've got the afternoon off today and heading into London to meet up with 3 friends for a mini pub crawl around the West End. If all goes to plan i'll get myself a cheeky Chinese in China Town before heading back. I'm working from home this morning so the return train ticket is only £13 rather than the usual £34.30. Not bad. Although will barely touch the sides on the additional price of a pint of beer / glass of wine in central London
Wish me luck...
Monday, 6 October 2025
Hastings beer festival
We had an afternoon off from the kids on Saturday, some friends took the kids to a joint birthday party whilst we headed down to Hastings for the afternoon for a beer festival meeting up with friends who moved there a couple of years ago.
Friday, 12 September 2025
Tuesday, 12 August 2025
Friday, 4 July 2025
Old Lloyd's buddies
It was my friend Markus' 50th birthday party on Sunday. He held it at his rowing club. My old boss Quentin was there too (not in photo) plus one of the good guys at Lloyd's Patrick.
It was good to see them.
Tuesday, 24 June 2025
Glad I could help
I had a message from a my best friend from Uni this morning asking for help with excel. It's about the 3rd or 4th time i've helped him out.
I really don't mind, as it's usually nothing complicated. These days I generally don't get to play around with excel so much when I go to a new company, processes are usually well established so I just have to go through the motions and update the data. Everything in theory flops out at the other end wth limited interaction.
It's nice to use parts of my brain that don't get used very often.
Monday, 23 June 2025
Double booked
With Royal Ascot earlier in the day we had to shoot back to Tonbridge for our friends Stuart and Lesley's joint birthday parties. A combined age of 100! They were supposed to do a 40th / 50th 5 years ago but Covid put a stop to that.
Anyway, we made it, but didn't have time to get changed. We walked past my pub and got a good laugh from the landlord Jon! I like to do my bit and makes sure everybody is happy.
Friday, 6 June 2025
Board game night
We popped over to some friends house last night and had dinner followed by playing a few board games.
A french version of Treasure Island (they're french / Belgium) and High Society. Good fun.
Wednesday, 4 June 2025
Last night's game
We completed the latest chapter in the campaign and are now level 14.
Tuesday, 3 June 2025
Another BBQ
We had another BBQ round a friends on Sunday
Friday, 23 May 2025
Off to France tomorrow
We're taking the week off next week and are driving to Sezanne, about 20 min from Epernay (Champagne). We're going with a couple of other families so there will be 12 of us. The same families we went to Camber Sands with last year. I'm swapping cars with a friend for the week as I don't fancy charging the car whilst abroad. Should be a fun trip though..
Wednesday, 21 May 2025
40th round a friends
One of our friends had her 40th birthday at their house on Saturday, loads of the Tonbridge lot turned up. It was good fun.
Friday, 16 May 2025
Fantasy football update
I'm just outside the top 20k fantasy football players this year with 2 game weeks to go. That's out of 11.5m players (i'm sure the vast majority of accounts are now dormant), even given that, it's been a bloody good season for me.
I'm top of all my groups except for 1 and have no realistic prospect of winning the whole thing but still very pleased. I'm 154 pts clear in my Tonbridge group with 2 games left so no realistic chance of me losing, but it comes with a £20 entry fee for prize money and also a trophy. I've won it 3 times out of 6 (about to be 4th time winning out of 7). Usually we'll all meet up for the fa cup final or for the final week of the season but we have a 40th birthday party and i'm away in France for the final game so struggling to find a date where we can meet. The winner has to pay for drinks out of the winnings so they're usually out of pocket especially after getting the trophy engraved.
I've suggested some alternate meets but not much joy (one response). Sod it. Just pay up.





































